Christine Battams from Teaching Kids for life Parenting programs Melbourne 1

About Christine Battams

As a professional counsellor and coach, I use a Trauma-Informed Framework as the foundation for my interventions.

With a Master’s in Community Counselling, I combine theoretical knowledge with extensive practical experience and a deep understanding gained over years of counselling. This has allowed me to create The River of Hope, an innovative intervention program designed to support transformation and positive change.

This program is a practical and effective approach that I have developed, and it has been instrumental in achieving successful outcomes in a wide range of situations over the years.

Qualifications

  • The Biology of Trauma – Accelerated healing with Somatic Practices. 2024
  • Introduction into “All Parts Of Me” Working with IFS and Somatic Practices. 2024
  • Masters In Community Counselling (Master Comm Couns.) 2022
  • Attachment and Trauma Theory. 2020
  • Certified Shark Tank Facilitator.  Sexual Abuse and Domestic Violence Recovery. 2019
  • CHCMHS001 ‘Work with People with Mental health Issues’ CHCCCS016 ‘Respond to Clients Needs’. 2017

Professional Membership

  • Australian Counselling Association Registered

I believe the transformation process is based on the following:

Well-Being:

  • The person is not the problem – the problem is the problem – as a result, how do I change my relationship with the problem/s (anxiety, fear, shame, guilt, disrespect, defiance, meltdowns) needs to change, and with it a change in the understanding of the relationship with the child.
  • Develop a healthy self-narrative – the narrative one believes about themselves due to their past or mistakes does not define them. A person can develop a healthy narrative of who they are which enables them to grow past their self-limiting beliefs and barriers.
  • Provide hope through options – a lack of options defines hopelessness. Learn to operate and make decisions with support while navigating difficult and tough circumstances. This builds self-confidence and enables the strengthening of relationships. Learn to operate and make powerful decisions based on what’s within our control, without feeling guilty.
  • Build healthy habits – intentional, regular habits designed to develop personal well-being are necessary to build inner core strength and confidence. These increase the ability to tolerate disruptions/distress, and to be a calm thoughtful presence so necessary to a child’s healthy development.

These concepts together with mentored parenting skills, provide the capacity to tolerate children’s poor choices or behaviour. This process provides options to navigate/deal with anxiety which generates improved outcomes.

To bring this about, a focus change is required:

  • The parent will learn to focus on managing themselves, regardless of the child’s behaviour.

  • The parent will learn to become strong and confident in what is allowed by using ‘I” statements, and by holding children accountable (this approach also works well with high spirited, oppositional, anxious, and defiant children).
  • Children must be allowed to make poor choices (within age-appropriate safety limits). This allows them to experience the consequences of their poor choice/s, rather than rescuing them.
Teaching Kids For Life Battams

Discovery Call with Christine – 30 Minutes

Are you wondering if Christine is the right fit for you and your family?

Schedule a 30-minute discovery call to discuss your parenting or relational challenges.

In this session, you'll have the opportunity to ask questions and gain valuable insights to help bring clarity, connection, and growth to your relationships.

*Please note: One free Discovery Call is available per client.

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Sun King
17 January 2025
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I have 6 children, all of whom have been through a really tough divorce. Christine has shown nothing if not the most professionally presented structure to dealing with the ups and downs I've faced with the kids. Each child requires their own type of parenting, which Chrisine was more than happy to navigate with me. On a personal note, she's also helped me through my own traumas and responses. I maintain a persistent client and will do so for a long while to come. Christine helped me approach everything from new angles and listened to me with intent to assist. I highly, highly, highly recommend Teaching Kids For Life for ANY parent needing an extra push or a new approach to tricky moments. Mark.
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Nhi Tran
7 July 2024
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My husband and I took the Love and Logic course with Christine two years ago, and it was truly transformative for our family. Christine’s warmth and empathy, coupled with her practical strategies, restored our confidence as parents. Now that our kids are teenagers, we've encountered new challenges. When our younger son started high school, we also moved houses, which brought a lot of frustration for him and led to frequent meltdowns. Computer games became a significant problem and there were constant arguments among our kids, which turned our previously calm household into a chaotic one. This left us all emotionally exhausted and stressed. Desperate for help, I tried reaching out to a psychologist but received no response. Christine immediately came to mind. Christine took the time to listen to our struggles and understand what our family was going through. After booking a session with her, I felt a profound sense of relief knowing we were getting the support we needed. Christine visited us and spent three hours with our family—one hour with each of our sons and another hour with my husband and me. Both of our boys quickly warmed up to her. They felt heard and understood as she empathetically listened and helped them work through their issues, coming up with realistic solutions together. When Christine spoke with my husband and me, she shared her observations and insights from her time with our boys. Her perspective was incredibly valuable, revealing more than we had been able to uncover on our own. Together, we focused on our most pressing problems, and Christine provided us with practical strategies to address them. Over the next few weeks, we gradually introduced these changes, involving our kids in the process. While we're still working through our challenges, we've become a closer family, learning to communicate our emotions more openly and finding more opportunities to connect. Screen time is now more manageable, and our kids understand their responsibilities as family members. The time we spent with Christine was invaluable—it was exactly what we needed to reset and move forward. We felt supported before, during, and after our consultation, with follow-up meetings that helped us refine our approach. I truly believe we couldn't have achieved this progress without Christine's help. Her customized consultation process has been incredibly effective for our family.
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Amber Smith
27 June 2024
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My husband and I were struggling with our 10 year old son and his behaviour. Everything we tried would never work, our house was becoming very unsettled and stressful. Christine came highly recommended to us and she has been an absolute life saver. We had several sessions with her to help us understand where our son was at and what we needed to say and do to put in positive boundaries. She had just over an hour session with our son, she came out knowing more about where he was at than we ever could have. We were shocked but so relieved to know how he was feeling inside, we could then use Christine’s strategies to help reconnect with him. She reminded us about self love and care which was so important for our own sanity. Our experience with Christine has brought peace and calm back into our house it is amazing! Something we will be so grateful for. For any families going through challenging times with their kids behavior I can’t recommend her high enough.
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Wang Susanna
11 April 2024
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Christine offers excellent parenting courses that I highly recommend. Her “Teaching Kids for Life” programs are a must for parents looking to equip themselves with invaluable insights and practical advice. Her personalized counselling and coaching sessions provide great value. Her online program, Crossing the River, is designed to equip parents with essential tools at their own pace. For those looking for in-person sessions, her Love and Logic courses are perfect for fostering positive relationships with kids while maintaining boundaries. Christine’s dedication empowers parents to thrive, and her courses, like “Calming the Chaos,” deliver lasting results.
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Cecylia Kee
23 June 2022
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I used to be an alumni of Helicopter Mum Anonymous. But after I met Christine I’ve experienced a huge amount of understanding and transformation. My default response to my children’s disobedience was explosive anger, frequent frustration, unchecked anxiety, unnecessary bribery and the like… But I have learnt from Christine that only a calm parent can positively role-model, teach and influence their children. By remembering to take care of myself so I can manage my own emotions, offering my children choices and appropriate consequences has given all of us the time and space to learn and grow in resilience and responsibilities. Parenting used to feel powerless and puzzling. But now I am less anxious, more in control and our home has never had so much love, joy, and peace. Thank you for sharing so much wisdom from the Love & Logic course and your River of Hope program. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable with your own parenting journey. And thank you for parting the clouds of confusion to show me that clarity and calmness is possible even for a former helicopter mum.